Q. I was up in in Canada for New Year’s Eve and met a girl a little after midnight. We immediately hit it off and ended up going back to her place, but we both agreed to hold off on sleeping with each other. We were up until 6 a.m. just talking and getting to know each other. We definitely still connected physically and had a lot of chemistry and both agreed that we’ve never had this sort of synergy right off the bat before.

I recently got out of a long-term relationship (September) and she had one end last winter. I’m finally over my ex, so I don’t see this as an issue, but it’s still fairly recent. To complicate matters more, I’m planning on moving to Thailand in April to teach English there for 10 months. I was upfront with this woman about my plans and she said she would love to come and visit me.