Right now, lesbian and gay couples who are as deeply committed as my husband and I are, who’ve shared private jokes and dumb arguments, budget-making and childrearing just as we have, can’t count on being able to fully support one another when one of them is ill or injured. Even in the handful of states where same-sex couples can legally marry, rights including spousal health-care benefits are not guaranteed.
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