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Destination weddings: Advice on opting out

Plus, dealing with a colleague’s annoying whistling habit.

> My nephew is getting married at a destination wedding in the south of France that will require a week’s stay. For a variety of reasons, including financial, I can’t attend.  Do I politely decline with an explanation or simply decline?

J.G. / Salem

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