The Boston Globe

Magazine

Parenting Issue

Getting through to your kids in the digital age

How smartphones, family dinners, and admitting you don’t know everything can help you connect.

THE YOUNG BOY with spiky blond hair lies in bed wearing football pajamas and staring at the miniature solar system hanging from his ceiling. His bearded father lies beside him, fielding a few questions before turning out the lights.

Comments

I think one of the major implications missing here is that it has become much harder for parents to say no to something just because they want to. Once upon a time, and even still today,  if a parent was sick of being the bad cop they could use a little white lie instead. (eg-"we can't go to Chuck-E-Cheese's because it's closed today" instead of "Mommy just really needs some downtime at the moment") If anything though I think this is a step forward, as it helps to keep dialogues honest  between parent and child and helps keep excessively authortarian parents in check.