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    Conrad Bain, father in ‘Diff’rent Strokes’

    Conrad Bain, with his co-stars on “Diff’rent Strokes,’’ Todd Bridges (left) and Gary Coleman.
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    Conrad Bain, with his co-stars on “Diff’rent Strokes,’’ Todd Bridges (left) and Gary Coleman.

    NEW YORK — Conrad Bain, a veteran stage and film actor who became a star in middle age as the kindly white adoptive father of two young African-American brothers in the television sitcom “Diff’rent Strokes,” died Monday of natural causes in his hometown of Livermore, Calif. He was 89.

    The show that made him famous debuted on NBC in 1978, in an era when television comedies tackled relevant social issues. “Diff’rent Strokes” touched on serious themes but was known better as a family comedy that drew most of its laughs from its standout child actor, Gary Coleman.

    Mr. Bain played wealthy Manhattan widower Philip Drummond, who promised his dying housekeeper he would raise her sons, played by Coleman and Todd Bridges. Race and class relations became topics on the show as much as the typical trials of growing up.


    Coleman, with his sparkling eyes and perfect comic timing, became an immediate star, and Mr. Bain, with his long training as a theater actor, proved an ideal straight man. The series lasted six seasons on NBC and two on ABC.

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    In the show’s heyday, Mr. Bain did not mind being overshadowed by the focus on the show’s children. He praised Coleman and Bridges as natural talents without egos.

    But “Diff’rent Strokes” is remembered mostly for its child stars’ adult troubles.

    Coleman, who died in 2010, had financial and legal problems in addition to continuing ill health from the kidney disease that stunted his growth and required transplants. Bridges and Dana Plato, who played Mr. Bain’s teenage daughter, both had arrest records and drug problems, and Plato died of an overdose in 1999 at age 34.

    Mr. Bain said he struggled to talk about his television children’s troubled lives because of his love for them. After Bridges started to put his drug troubles behind him in the early 1990s, he told Jet magazine that Mr. Bain had become like a real father to him.


    Mr. Bain went directly into “Diff’rent Strokes” from another comedy, “Maude,” which aired on CBS from 1972 to 1978.

    As Dr. Arthur Harmon, the conservative neighbor often zinged by Bea Arthur’s liberal feminist, Mr. Bain became so convincing as a doctor that a woman once stopped him in an airport seeking medical advice.

    Mr. Bain also had appeared occasionally in films, including “A Lovely Way to Die,” “Coogan’s Bluff,” “The Anderson Tapes,” “I Never Sang for My Father,” and Woody Allen’s ­“Bananas.”

    He also played the clerk at the Collinsport Inn in the 1960s TV show “Dark Shadows.”

    A native of Lethbridge, Alberta, Mr. Bain arrived in New York in 1948 after serving in the Canadian Army during World War II.


    A quick study who could play anything from Shakespeare to O’Neill, he found work in stock companies in the United States, making his New York debut in 1956 as Larry Slade in “The Iceman Cometh” at the Circle in the Square.