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    Essie Washington-Williams, 87; Strom Thurmond’s daughter

    Essie Mae Washington-Williams was not publicly acknowledged by her father, Senator Strom Thurmond.
    2005 file/ap
    Essie Mae Washington-Williams was not publicly acknowledged by her father, Senator Strom Thurmond.

    COLUMBIA, S.C. — Essie Mae Washington-Williams, the mixed-race daughter of Senator Strom Thurmond who kept her parentage secret for more than 70 years, died Monday. She was 87.

    Ms. Washington-Williams was the daughter of Thurmond, one-time segregationist, and his family’s black maid. The identity of her famous father was rumored for decades in political circles and the black community. She later said she kept his secret because, ‘‘He trusted me, and I respected him.’’

    Not until after Thurmond’s death in 2003 at age 100 did Ms. Washington-Williams come forward and say her father was the white man who ran for president on a segregationist platform and served in the Senate for 47 years.


    ‘‘I am Essie Mae Washington-Williams, and at last I am completely free,’’ she said at a press conference revealing her secret.

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    She was born in 1925 after Thurmond, then 22, had an affair with a 16-year-old black maid who worked in his family’s home in Edgefield, S.C. She spent years as a school teacher in Los Angeles, keeping in touch with her famous father.

    While Thurmond never publicly acknowledged his daughter, his family acknowledged her claim. ­She later said Thurmond’s widow, Nancy, was ‘‘a very wonderful person’’ and called Strom Thurmond Jr. ‘‘very caring.’’

    Paul Thurmond, a South Carolina state senator and son of Strom Thurmond, said in an e-mail, ‘‘She was kind and gracious and I have the greatest respect for her, her life and her legacy.’’

    Ms. Washington-Williams was raised by Mary and John Washington in Coatesville, Pa. Her world changed when she was 13, and Mary Washington’s sister, Carrie Butler, told Essie Mae that she was her mother.


    Ms. Washington-Williams met Thurmond for the first time a few years later in a law office in ­Thurmond’s hometown of Edgefield.

    ‘‘He didn’t verbally acknowledge that I was his child,” Ms. Washington-Williams wrote in her autobiography, ‘‘Dear Senator: A Memoir by the Daughter of Strom Thurmond,’’ released in 2005. “He didn’t ask when I was leaving and didn’t invite me to come back. It was like an audience with an impor­tant man, a job interview, but not a reunion with a father.’’

    It was the first of many visits between Ms. Washington-Williams and her father.

    He supported her, paying for her to attend what was then South Carolina State College when ­Thurmond was governor. He also helped her after her husband died in the 1960s.

    ‘‘It’s not that Strom Thurmond ever swore me to secrecy; he never swore me to anything,’’ she wrote. ‘‘We loved each other in our deeply repressed ways, and that was our social contract.’’


    Ms. Washington-Williams watched from afar as Thurmond ran for president as a segregationist for the Dixiecrat Party in 1948, saying that ‘‘all the laws of Washington and all the bayonets of the army cannot force the Negro race into our theaters, our swimming pools, our schools, our churches, our homes.’’

    Ms. Washington-Williams recalled once asking her father about race. Thurmond defended his beliefs as part of the ‘‘culture and custom of the South,’’ she wrote.

    ‘‘I certainly never did like the idea that he was a segregationist, but there was nothing I could do about it,’’ Ms. Washington-Williams said in 2003. ‘‘That was his life.’’

    Thurmond later softened his political stance and renounced racism. But he never publicly acknowledged his oldest daughter or the role he played in her life. Thurmond and his first wife, Jean, were married in 1947; she died in 1960. They had no children. He had four children with his second wife, the former Nancy Moore.

    Ms. Washington-Williams was left unsettled by her father’s death. At her daughter’s encouragement she decided to make her story public.

    ‘‘In a way, my life began at 78, at least my life as who I really was,’’ Ms. Washington-Williams wrote. ‘‘I may have called it ‘closure,’ but it was much more like an opening, a very grand opening.’’

    A statue of Thurmond on the State House lawn was cast saying he had four children. Thurmond’s family agreed to have Ms. Washington-Williams’s name added.