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‘I’m not sure if these two bathroom trips were a bad sign’

After three weeks, he still continued to call and text me, and a few times he asked me about going out again and I told him yes, but then when I asked what day he told me we should just play it by ear.

After eight months away, our marriage is different

"Things are different now, and I think it’s all in my head – or is it?"
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He ended it by ghosting me. Now friends say he misses me.

Should I make one final attempt with a man who ghosted me?
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He stopped reaching out to me

"He hasn’t started a single conversation with me all day, but I just blame the fact that he’s stressed and busy."
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What do I do about this friend crush?

"There have been little moments here and there, where it feels like we’re flirting, or he’ll call me cute, but it never leads to anything past that."

We have sex only two or three times a year

“We’ve talked about it a lot and she swears it’s not me.”

How do I date when I’m always in the house?

"I don’t believe all men are bad or cheat, yet ... where are the stable, available, positive-energy men?"

Is it time to settle?

"Ever since I was young, I devoured books and movies about love. ... Now I’m in my mid-30s, scraping the bottom of the pool on a dating app."

She’s still obsessed with my boyfriend

"Creepy much?"

‘It started to feel like I was making all the effort. I broke off our relationship.’

I really don’t want to go through that again. How do I avoid a repeat?

We’re never single at the same time

"He’s married, but he says he has always been in love with me."

At what point should we break up?

"I love my boyfriend, but long-distance is hard."

Still married (it’s been 13 years)

"Why would he intentionally stay married to someone he’s not in love with?"

He’s very into me. He’s also married.

We work together and got along really well. But then I asked about his marital status.

I dream of my late ex-husband

“He kept asking me for help with various things (for example, doing his laundry, which I did happily). He divorced me nonetheless and died several months later.”

I haven’t made it past a first date in months

"Over time I’ve started to imagine myself as the Coyote, continually chasing the Road Runner."

Second-guessing a breakup one year later

"It’s hard because I know that my ex would be interested in getting back together if I gave him the chance."